RESEARCH

One mothers personal experience

1. TESTING
Public school is different now. I mean, all I have to say is "core curriculum standards" or "testing" and you know what I'm talking about. Teachers are teaching to the test, and even they don't like it. It's become a pressure cooker situation, and it's a wonder anyone can think at all in that environment.

2. EDUCATION
I have a passion for learning. I think it should be about expanding your world, thinking creatively and strategically, exploring, innovating, collaborating. Independent schools have more freedom to create programs that encourage this broader definition of education.

3. LOCAL PUBLIC
 It's an okay school, but it's a school that tests more than that state even requires (what the hell?!?) and where teachers are generally unhappy. It's huge and crowded. No one eats during lunchtime because it's too chaotic. How can I send my son to a mediocre school when I know what else is out there? I can't. I just can't.

5. INDIVIDUAL ATTENTION
There are no grades or report cards; instead, they have narrative reports. Teachers describe in detail what they're learning and how they're learning it. If kids need improvement in an area, parents hear about it. If kids seems particularly adept in another area, we hear about that, too. There's a bit about how he's doing relative to other kids his age, but that's not the emphasis. His teachers are careful to craft their instruction and curriculum to support the kids' interests while still encouraging them to grow in new areas and skills. It's all kind of jaw-dropping.

6. SMALLER CLASS SIZES
There are 18 kids per class with a teacher and a teacher's assistant. And yeah, it makes a big difference.

7. SHARED VALUES
The other families at my son's school share a similar vision for education and for life in general. I don't think this happens in every private school, and it may be because ours is a school founded by people working in creative fields (film, design, music) rather than just rich folks. But the kids are all mostly centered and thoughtful, and the parents are cool, too. I guess choosing a private school means you also get to select your "tribe" -- whatever that looks like. And the social environment of your child's school becomes increasingly important the older they get.
I could go on, but those are the biggest reasons. Like I said, I'm fortunate to have the choice. Not everyone does. I'm not sure how much longer I'll be able to pull it off, but I'm so grateful I've been able to send my son to private school -- this school in particular.